Marriage

Last weekend i attended a marriage agreement, sorry selling agreement as what i saw in my opinion is negotiation for getting the best deal in each side vision.
what i know is the marriage is composing a new family building on love and harmony how this is come when the couple saw that what happened is something like a deal done between the 2 families.
when i saw this i told to my father when i am going to marry i won't make this. i will ask my future wife to come to my flat and we build our life in the way we want not the way the people want, it is our future not your past!!!
why to ask for a children room and we are still in the first days!!!
why to ask for cermoney in certain way and we are in our first steps in life ( ok it is the day of the life instead we may have a real honeymoon in anywhere as what every i make in the wedding cermoney the next day another one will be better and the people speak about us in bad ways!!! )
why ask to manage things in our life??
if the bride family not trust me as groom for her and ask for money as inssurance so they not needed for me!!!
people wake up, see the facts it is building a family not setting up a company and each side want his best share in it.
marriage is new family, new part in the sociality, it needs to be a good one to build our world our country, our culture, ....